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[vernard]

I found out last week that my ex-wife is engaged to be married.

It actualy hit me pretty hard and I was quite disturbed.

I'm better now. Well, getting better at least.

Only mortal beings can believe in forever....

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[reannon.livejournal.com]

Yeeeouch. You just kind of expect them to stay miserable and pining away for us forever, yanno? :( That's not so much to ask.

[vernard.livejournal.com]

Actually, my ex-wife never really pined for me as far as I can tell. Remember, she left me. And all things considered, I hope she didn't waste any time doing that. The past cannot be changed. If you can't do something about a situation (such as the past) then to quote military colloquialism "Fuck It, Drive On."

Its just feels weird. Hell, I'm sure it'll feel even weirder if/when I re-marry.

[reannon.livejournal.com]

Yeah, my ex didn't pine for me either, just kind of wrote off our seven years as if they didn't happen. Not that I wanted sackcloth and ashes, but it would be kind of nice just to think that I was worth a tear, yanno? On the other hand, it's good that you don't wish her any ill. The friendly ex-relationship is always best.

Fuck It, Drive On. I'm remembering that.

[vernard.livejournal.com]

Oh its far from friendly. Its more like a non-relationship. We are complete strangers that don't intereact with each other at all. Her choice. I respect it.