But you can't forget. You can't forget that this person was human, and that something drove them over the edge... there is a need in the human psyche to try and understand why. On the one hand, it is their choice.... on the other, for one so young... and it *does* have a *huge* effect on the folks around them. Even if for just that reason, one needs to deal with the problem before moving on. Quietly, respectfully, but it must be dealt with.